"The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom but fools despise wisdom and discipline.” Proverbs 1:7
A wise woman studies her husband to make sure she understands him. She invests time and thought into developing discernment and discretion. She learns what discourages him, what angers him, what gives him joy. She prays that God would help her view his weaknesses with compassion and understanding.
”Sensible people control their temper, they earn respect by overlooking wrongs.” Proverbs 19:11
Men react differently than women do when they are depressed or afraid. Even a “mature’ man will act out of character when he is deeply distressed. A wise wife, who is slow to take offense, will be more of a help to her husband when he needs her.
A smart woman makes sure that her husband is well fed before she brings up any important topic of conversation. Yes, this sounds old fashioned doesn’t it? How I wish that a wise woman had taught me this when I was first married! To even suggest that the way to a man’s heart was through his stomach was considered demeaning to the woman (“How dare anyone expect me to cook just so he can feel a little better!”). The same response came when someone suggested that a woman should avoid controversial subjects when she was feeling hormonal (”How dare anyone suggest that women act differently during certain times of the month!”).
Oh, if only I had taken into account age old wisdom, we could have avoided many arguments and disagreements! So be a wise woman. Study your man and know yourself.
It may mean that you have to reorganize your day so that you are rested when he walks in the door. It may mean learning how to cook even though cooking (and clean up) is work. The world is full of many undernourished men with wives who can’t be bothered with cooking. Good food is crucial to a well lived life and a happy family. Protect the health and happiness of your husband and family and learn basic, simple delicious cooking.
If your husband is an introvert, allow him some “alone” time to rejuvenate before you unleash the children on him! If he suffers from low blood sugar, greet him with a plate of cheese and crackers and fresh grapes. If he is an extrovert who loves the company of people, put down your book (or other quiet pursuit;) and invite people over for a meal. If he is a worrier, pray for him and tell him that you believe in Him and you know that God is in control.
May you be a “crown” to your husband. http://jillcampbellfarris.com/
A wise woman studies her husband to make sure she understands him. She invests time and thought into developing discernment and discretion. She learns what discourages him, what angers him, what gives him joy. She prays that God would help her view his weaknesses with compassion and understanding.
”Sensible people control their temper, they earn respect by overlooking wrongs.” Proverbs 19:11
Men react differently than women do when they are depressed or afraid. Even a “mature’ man will act out of character when he is deeply distressed. A wise wife, who is slow to take offense, will be more of a help to her husband when he needs her.
A smart woman makes sure that her husband is well fed before she brings up any important topic of conversation. Yes, this sounds old fashioned doesn’t it? How I wish that a wise woman had taught me this when I was first married! To even suggest that the way to a man’s heart was through his stomach was considered demeaning to the woman (“How dare anyone expect me to cook just so he can feel a little better!”). The same response came when someone suggested that a woman should avoid controversial subjects when she was feeling hormonal (”How dare anyone suggest that women act differently during certain times of the month!”).
Oh, if only I had taken into account age old wisdom, we could have avoided many arguments and disagreements! So be a wise woman. Study your man and know yourself.
It may mean that you have to reorganize your day so that you are rested when he walks in the door. It may mean learning how to cook even though cooking (and clean up) is work. The world is full of many undernourished men with wives who can’t be bothered with cooking. Good food is crucial to a well lived life and a happy family. Protect the health and happiness of your husband and family and learn basic, simple delicious cooking.
If your husband is an introvert, allow him some “alone” time to rejuvenate before you unleash the children on him! If he suffers from low blood sugar, greet him with a plate of cheese and crackers and fresh grapes. If he is an extrovert who loves the company of people, put down your book (or other quiet pursuit;) and invite people over for a meal. If he is a worrier, pray for him and tell him that you believe in Him and you know that God is in control.
May you be a “crown” to your husband. http://jillcampbellfarris.com/
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Thanks for posting my article on Wise Wives! May God strengthen you as you walk in His truth!
Blessings,
Jill Farris
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